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Dr. Sys
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Whether or not she is interested is not the critical question. It may feel (and often does) like its the most important question, but it is a question that YOU can insure is answered the way you want. by staying in control and showing your value in that process. That doesn’t mean you show disinterest, but it means you show her those things that a woman wants – and has to EARN.

Does the call make “sense” – as far as the “what”, yes – but the “why” is the problem. You told her one thing and DID something different. A woman wants a man she can rely on, depend on and trust. Did your choice of action show that is you for her?

Ultimately, whether she was chasing you or not, it is clear she isn’t now. That doesn’t mean you should chase. Rather it means one text, about halfway through the “break” while she is away is something you can use to remind her that she has something to return to soon. Don’t promise anything, let her mind and imagination work for you. Dont get into a conversation, a quick and short message and a follow up reply is she responds quickly and provides an opening – but you have value and a life so your focus should not be on “her”…..

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